Monday, May 7, 2012

Go Ask Lara #9, mother loses custody of her baby in divorce


Dear Lara,
I cannot even understand why I am able to form sentences or speak or reach out for help.  I was in a court battle with my ex and he had a better lawyer than I did.  He managed to get full custody of our 13 month old baby.  They used everything they could against me and I cannot believe I lost completely.  I feel like killing myself only my mother lost her husband, my father, already and I don’t want to put her through losing a daughter also.  I don’t expect anything to help me at this point, but I felt compelled to write you. 
Feeling Crazy and on the Edge of Insanity,

T.L. in AZ

Dear T.L.,

I cannot imagine what you must be going through.  I have “heard” a message from Divinity to tell you.  Abraham, as channeled by Esther Hicks, a group entity that is pure wisdom and love, teaches us that it is not easy to go from a low vibration to a high vibration.  That is difficult and uncomfortable, to say the least. However, this is what I am hearing for you to do.  Look at is as an Olympic challenge that you are capable of, if you focus well enough.  Understanding that a huge vibrational shift is not easy is important.  You will be aware of what you are embarking on and will be better equipped for the journey. It is sort of like knowing that you will encounter snow and ice, being prepared helps you tremendously for the trek. 

If you go to therapists, sitting in offices, talking about your woes, you will not shift your vibration very much.  You might feel better sometimes, but you will go back to the vibration of sorrow and despair most likely.  You can go to support groups, but others there will hold a low vibration of sadness and you will pick their sorrow up and add that to your own.  You are being called for a soul challenge here.   Find the best music that suits you, that is uplifting and has a strong beat to dance to.  Use your rhythm, your passion for dance to lift you out of the quicksand that would only pull you down further and create other problems.  Force yourself, no matter how you feel, to dance to this music for at least 45 minutes a day.  If you can do it more than once a day, good.  If only for 30 minutes twice a day or even once a day, keep doing this.  When you are dancing, let go of everything, every thought.  Just feel the body moving and hear the music and be transported.  Allow yourself to get beyond the sorrow by sweating and moving with rhythm.  Your goal is to feel joy from the dance and music as much as possible.  Even if you feel so down you cannot get up and feel tired and cannot move from depressed lethargy, dance anyway.  If you like to sing, add that as well. 
It is quite a challenge to nudge yourself into joy when your vibration is far from that.  The music and movement will help you get there.  You won’t have to do this with your own will and volition. The energy of passion and the inspiration of the sounds in the music will assist you.   Your task is to put the music on and clear the space to dance and force yourself to do that even if you feel like not existing.  This will make you extremely strong.  Again, it is an extreme challenge to go from acute sorrow to the joy of dance with energetic, uplifting music. The music choice is key here.  It has to be pushing you to move just by hearing it. It has to take you out of your mind and emotions and into an uplifting energy vibration.   Spend time gathering the right kind of music for yourself.  

Set your intention for what you are embarking on. This is Magic.  It is alchemy.  It is shifting from one reality to another, from one vibration to another with the aid of movement and sound.  Again, if you feel like singing, sing.  But, keep to uplifting sounds.  Your blood cells will respond and your aura will reflect the energy shift.  Bring in help from the Higher Realms as you do this so that you feel supported in this embarkation.  This is a huge journey across a vast ocean. But, if you stick to it, you will encounter a Self you have never known before.  Your inner strength will amaze you.   This applies to any tragedy.  But, there are different remedies depending on the person and if they have legs to dance or vocal cords.    In your case, use what you have.  You have your legs, your hearing and your rhythm.  Use these to jump to another vibratory category.  Keep at this for an extended time period, if not forever.   Your diligence will be rewarding to the rest of the world who will gain much with you, energetically.  

Good luck on this journey!  Don’t miss a day.  Each day is sacred.  

Lara

Lara De Ann is a writer of books available on www.EmpireOfTheSunspirit.com and e-books currently on Kindle.  She also gives Insightful Guidance over the phone.  As a non-religious Ordained Reverend, she does spiritual weddings and memorial services. 





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